“Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck; write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good success in the sight of God and man.” Proverbs 3:3-4 ESV
How can we be both successful in life as well as find favor with others?
- Will it be because of the family we are born into?
- Is it going to be due the people we meet?
- Is it in the knowledge/wisdom we gain (i.e. schooling…)?
- Can these intangibles even gained if one is not born with/into them?
- Could it be that doing things that please others will be the route to favor?
- What is success anyway? Money? Family? Friends? Experiences?…
If you study the Bible enough, you will find that God’s way to (and definition of) success is very different that the worlds (and by that I mean all us humans)…
And the truth is, only his way (and definition) truly matters.
Jesus said “…whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” Matt. 16:25
Jesus’ way to success, in his own life (pre-resurrection…) and now ours(also pre-resurrection), is the very laying doing of said life… I’m not saying that God is not at all interested in life in the here-and-now… Nor that we are to live life like monks… I’m not saying that we are to have no enjoyments, nor am i saying that there will not be things in your life that the “world” would call success. What I’m saying is that if you really want to be successful, if you want it all to be worth something… an by “all” I mean your time, your energy, your passion, your -ok you get it…
If you want success, you are going to have to “lose your life”… You are going to have to become apart of the only thing that is going to be of eternal consequence…
The Body of Christ
Paul looked at everything he had been and everything he had done and said, and i paraphrase “its all nothing… the only thing that matters is doing what God has called me to do…
Like I said, we are a part of the Body of Christ, and just as Jesus (again pre-resurrection) was always doing, going, reaching, preaching, healing and saving, We must do the same… since we are his body… Of course it is HIS Spirit that does the supernatural parts… not us…
So to answer my questions from the beginning:
- Will it be because of the family we are born into?
Yes… we must be born again… John 3, Acts 2… - Is it going to be due the people we meet?
Yes, like Paul or goal must be to “know HIM and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death…” Phil 3:10 - Is it in the knowledge/wisdom we gain (i.e. schooling…)?
Yes, But not just any kind of Knowledge….”knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding” Col 1:9 - Can these intangibles even gained if one is not born with/into them?
No, See Answer to Question 1 - Could it be that doing things that please others will be the route to favor?
This one is tricky… we will refer back to Prov. 3… It was Mercy (Steadfast-Love) and Truth (Faithfulness) that are given as a way to success and favor… These things are not always pleasing to those around us (some will not want us to be merciful… others will want us to forsake truth… The key to it all is this Love God, then love everyone else… Don’t worry so much about pleasing people… make sure you are loving them! ALL OF THEM! - What is success anyway? Money? Family? Friends? Experiences?…
True success is eternally life… and not getting there alone, but rather with as many others a possible!
So back to Prov. 3:3-4 once more. We must be a Merciful, loving, truth loving, faithful people… and if we are, we will be successful




